Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line."
— Lucille Ball
Introduction To TDT
Hello, wonderful readers, and a heartfelt welcome to "TDT Talks," my humble corner of the internet where dreams take flight and thoughts intertwine. I am quite nervous right now because I have never done blogging before. So, please pardon me if I am not up to the standard of other bloggers. But I promise that I will eventually get to that standard, with the help of practice and your support. Your support is the spark that keeps this blog alive.
Now, you all might be probably wondering, "What does TDT stand for?" That's the question on the minds of most of you guys, isn't it? 'TDT' is an acronym that stands for 'The Dreaming Thinker' – the essence of who I am, a dreamer who deeply thinks about the various aspects or fields of life. It's a pen name I've come to love and accept over time as it clearly represents the fusion of imagination and contemplation that drives me and my passion for writing.
Beyond blogging, I'm also an author and a poet with two of my works residing on Wattpad, and I'm currently working on a secret novel project. According to MBTI I'm an INFJ, and my life's goal is to become a college lecturer, obtain a Ph.D., and make a positive difference in the world with the help of my writing. And just like everyone else's story, mine has also had it's own fair share of ups and downs, shaping the person I am today.
What I aim to do through "TDT Talks" is simple: I aim to be the change while inspiring others to do the same. My mission, now and always, is to motivate and uplift people, offering them hope and guiding them to achieve their best version. For far too long, I have kept my thoughts locked inside my head, but now I want to share them with the world to make a positive impact on people's lives.
Behind every new beginning, there lies an inspiration – a source that ignites the spark of creation. For me, that inspiration came from the very story of my life – the highs, the lows, and the intricate moments and people that have shaped my perspective. But let's put a pause on that for now, as we'll delve further into it in the next section.
The Birth Of A Dream (Or A Blog)
My life's journey has been one hell of a struggle, a fight, with this negative self-image I developed. I used to compare myself to others of my age, and my parents' high expectations made it worse. As time went on, my dissatisfaction turned into full-fledged self-hatred. Can you believe I used to think self-love was just for the self-absorbed? I know, it sounds crazy, right?
Things took a dark turn when my self-hatred led me to hurt someone I loved deeply – someone who held a special place in not only my heart but also my soul. Losing her left a void that nothing and no one else could fill. It was like a wake-up call, hitting me hard. I didn’t want the sacrifice she made for me to go in vain. So, I knew I had to fight my negative thoughts, to love myself, so that at least I wouldn't hurt my friends and family like I hurt my love.
So, I put all my determination and focus into it and started to work on myself. Sure, It definitely wasn't easy for me in any way, but right now when I am speaking through these pages, I can proudly, from my heart, say that I love myself for who I am. It's a very tough and complicated journey, but it's totally worth it. I can now finally see the good in me that those who cared about me saw all along.
And now, after going through my own hell, facing my worst fears, and embarking on a tough and meaningful journey of self-discovery and self-love, my mission is as clear as crystal. Now, I want to give others what I got, what I learned in my journey. My intention is to extend a helping hand to those who are still going through their journey and also to those who are yet to start that journey. Using my life experiences and ideologies as a foundation for this blog, I hope I can guide others, so that they don't make the mistakes I made. And more than anything, I yearn for my readers to find hope, even in the depths of darkness. This platform is a way of reaching out to all with a genuine compassion to remind each and everyone of you that there's always a glimmer of hope, no matter how challenging things get in life. I want you all to know that there's always room to grow.
By now, I'm sure that you also know that the inspiration behind this blog goes far beyond the story of my life; it's rooted in the love and adoration I have for the woman who always holds a special place in my soul. I believe that love is the most strongest force that fuels every single good thing in this world, and it's also the essence that fuels this blog from beginning to end. With that love as my guiding light, my mission is clear - to create a space that exudes positivity, hope, and limitless compassion, touching the lives of every single soul that stumbles upon it. This incredible woman I love is always a constant reminder that love is everything and more. Let that love continue to be the North Star on this journey - in my life and also within these heartfelt words shared on this blog.
My Vision Ahead
The expectations I have for "TDT Talks" go far beyond just a blog; I want it to be a catalyst for transforming lives, to become a voice for those who have been unheard and above all I want it to make a difference. And obviously you would know that making a difference isn't just limited to individual growth. So, I also aim to address societal issues that need our attention. And because of that reason the topics in this blog can range from self-improvement and motivation to pressing matters like rape, harassment, and male chauvinism. My goal is to create a space that inspires positive change not only in personal lives but also in the broader society.
My vision and dream for this blog doesn't just stop there. One day I might elevate "TDT Talks" from a blog to a podcast, where I can amplify the voices and opinions of others, fostering a community of change-makers. My ultimate mission is to empower each and every single person to be their voice of change.
Through this platform, I aim to be the change I wish to see in the world, and I hope to inspire others to do the same. Together, let's become the catalyst for transformation, making a lasting impact on the lives of many and creating a ripple effect of positive change that extends far beyond the bounds of this digital space.
The First Conclusion To A New Beginning
As I embark on this journey, I invite you, my wonderful readers to join me. I invite you all to build a community of compassion, positivity, motivation and change. All I ask from you, dear readers, is to give me all the support I need to carry on this initiative of positivity and love. Your words, your valuable comments mean everything to me. I would appreciate it if you shared this to as many people as possible, especially to the ones who need a helping hand the most. You can use the email - thedreamingthinker@gmail.com - to contact me personally for anything related to the blog. Feel free to suggest any topic you would want me to talk about either in the comments or through mail. And also, never ever hesitate to offer constructive criticisms.
Thank you all again for deciding to be a part of this journey with me. Let's make "TDT Talks" something greater than just a blog, a powerful movement that leaves a lasting legacy of love and change. And remember this quote, "Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line." - Lucille Ball
